Welcome — I’m So Glad You’re Here
If you’ve landed on this page, it means someone who truly cares about your healing journey has recommended you take this next step. Whether you’ve been ghosted, blindsided by betrayal, or left questioning your worth after a difficult relationship experience—you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
I’m Gretta Perlmutter, MA, a Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach and
Coping With Ghosting Podcast host. I help people:
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Heal after ghosting and betrayal
- Rebuild trust in yourself and others
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Release shame after betrayal
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Move forward confidence
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You'll receive evidence-based support and tools for lasting change.
Coaching Sessions are $120/hour
Sliding Scale Rates are Available
What People Are Saying:
"The exercises Gretta gave me were impactful and I think the biggest impact was made just by talking to her. I would never confide these things to my friends, it's just not something I want to talk to them about, so it was great to talk to you, someone who has been through the ghosting. I seriously appreciate it." ​
"Gretta is a fantastic person who takes your issues and feelings seriously, she doesn’t just says what
you want to hear but she actually cares for you and works with you to help you overcome your
ghosting experience." ​
"I have gained so much insight from Gretta. Today I looked at my situation much differently. He lost me! I have empathy for him because he cannot communicate effectively. He is struggling. This [coaching] has me refocused and helped with my own self-esteem issues. I feel so much better! Gretta has helped me more than she will ever know, and I am so grateful.”
"I was in a relationship with a deceptive man for over a year and a half, and he ghosted me instead of breaking up. I love Gretta's attitude - I felt seen and validated. I felt so confused and lost in the situation and didn't know where to start, and Gretta allowed me to vent and provided some great tips to help ground myself. I'm incredibly grateful to Gretta for the support and guidance she offers in sessions, podcasts, or social media to people navigating the struggles of ghosting, no matter the severity."
What's on the other side of your pain? ​
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✅ inner growth ✅ emotional mastery ✅ self-worth ✅ self-compassion ✅ rebuilding trust ✅ fulfilling relationships ✅ confidence ✅ new boundaries ✅ purpose ✅ unexpected and amazing new experiences
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q: Who is this coaching for?
A: Coaching for anyone healing from being ghosted, betrayed, or abandoned—whether by a date, lover, family, friend, or business contact. Looking for love? I specialize in early-stage dating, online profile setups, ghosting red flags, and more! Let’s help you move forward with confidence.​
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Q: I'm not sure if I was technically "ghosted" or betrayed. Can I still sign up?
A: Yes! Private coaching is for anyone who wants to heal, boost confidence, and feel better now.
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Q: What’s your process?
A: This is NOT therapy. Gretta offers personalized coaching sessions using evidence-based strategies that turn personal betrayal into a powerful catalyst for change. Get the support you need to move on, feel happier, and overcome the emotional toll of being ghosted or betrayed. Check out the major differences between therapy and Coping With Ghosting in this blog post.
If you have any questions or need to schedule outside of my calendar availability, please email Gretta at gretta@copingwithghosting.com